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Lesson

Be Kind

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About this Lesson

Help children understand the traits of a good friend, including how and when to share, and how to use words to express feelings.

Skills Addressed

  • Communication
  • Connecting with Others
  • Perspective Taking
  • Word Awareness
Lesson Details and Resources Lesson Books Lesson Activities Lesson Close

Lesson Details

Children will be better equipped to use their words to solve minor altercations rather than having to involve an adult. Children will also practice identifying and articulating their feelings, which can help caregivers and teachers support them emotionally.

Schedule of the Day

Post a “schedule of the day” for each lesson so that caregivers and children know what is going to happen.

Warm-Up10 min

Have caregivers sign-in and children retrieve name tags as a gentle way to begin your sessions easing caregivers and children into a routine. Meet with caregivers, make announcements, and provide bathroom reminders during this time. Have children clean up before beginning class.

  • Coloring sheets
  • Laminated worksheets
  • Quiet lap games

Introduction5-7 min

Call all children and caregivers to our circle and introduce yourself. Demonstrate introducing yourself to someone, encourage caregivers to model introducing themselves to each other, and have children introduce themselves. Names are powerful and promote identity, independence, and friendships. Make every effort to pronounce names correctly.

Choose one:

  • Hello Song (long version)
  • Hello Song (short version)
  • My name is ____

Concepts (letters, numbers, shapes, & colors)3-7 min

  • Alphabet Song: Sing the alphabet song together. Use an alphabet poster to point to letters. Hand out the letters and numbers printable to children so they can follow along.
  • Counting Rhyme: Count on your fingers 1 – 10 or sing a counting rhyme.
  • Write numbers or use numbers poster and hand out the letters and numbers printables to children so they can follow along (link green “printable resources” on this page).
  • Letters and Numbers Sheets

Transition3-5 min

At this time, caregivers leave the room to attend Caregiver Gear Up. It is important for both caregivers and children to feel comfortable during this time. This transition time helps children redirect to a new activity while the caregivers leave.

  • Sing Grownups Leave to caregivers. Give high fives, handshakes, or hugs.
  • While caregivers leave, hand out props (shakers, bean bags, rings, or scarves). Play transition song with props (this can be any song of your choosing).

Focusing1-2 min

Have children take their item (bean bag, scarf, ring, or shaker) and sit. Have them listen for their color (bean bag, scarf, ring, shaker, or even shoes, shirt, etc.) before they put the items away.

Good Listeners

Get ready for circle time by talking about:

  1. What is a good listener?
  2. Show me listening…eyes, arms, hands, mouths…
  3. Sit crisscross applesauce
  4. Teach a focusing activity that they will use for the remainder of the lessons:
    • Hand in the air
    • Clap and refrain
    • If you can hear my voice…
    • Bubbles

Circle Time5-7 min

It is useful to have an activity calendar or board that is used for each class that lists the word of the day, weather, days of the week, and seasons. These can be purchased or homemade. Leader should find ways to ensure all children have an opportunity to speak. This can be done by calling out individuals but be careful to not pressure children who are not ready.

  1. Circle Time: Introduce the theme of the day. Have a “word of the day” related to the theme – write it out and sound it out
  2. What is interesting about today?
  3. Activity Board
  4. Day of the Week talk
  5. Days of the Week song
  6. Month of the Year talk
  7. Weather talk
  8. Season

Lesson Activities

  • Emotion Freeze
  • Emotions Art Project

Printable Resources

  • Posters, Flyers, and Infographics

Caregiver Resources

  • Be Kind Caregiver Handout

    English Spanish
  • Be Kind Caregiver Gear Up Lesson

    View PDF
  • Be Kind Discussion Questions

    English Spanish

Lesson Books

Adding a book to the lesson helps the children understand what being kind means and how important it is to be kind to others.

Previewing a Book

Introduce the book. Ask thematic and open-ended questions about the book and character motivation during the reading. Have the children make predictions about what will happen in the book and “preview” some pages concerning what they think the book will be about.

More Book Options
The Thank You Letter cover

Be Generous, Be Kind

The Thank You Letter

By Jane CabreraHoliday House

Grace’s thank-you notes for her birthday presents appear all over town, bringing love and happiness into everyone’s lives.

The Kindness Book cover

Be Kind

The Kindness Book

By Todd ParrLittle, Brown and Company

This book explores different ways to show kindness, including choosing kind words, giving compliments, and offering help without being asked.

Next Steps

Theme4-5 min

Discuss what kindness is, who is kind, and what makes a person kind.

  • What does it mean to be kind?
  • How can we show kindness?
  • When has someone been kind to you?
  • When did our character show kindness?
  • Why is it important to be kind?

Form a Line & Follow the Leader5-10 min

We will be forming a line every class meeting. It is important for children to practice getting and staying in a line for kindergarten success.

  1. Have children form a line – demonstrate this with an additional staff person or volunteer.
  2. Turn around, show who the head of the line is, and who the end of the line is.
  3. Demonstrate follow the leader.
  4. Line the children up.
  5. Play follow the leader, switching often so everyone has an opportunity to be the line leader.
  6. Return to circle.

Variation: After forming a line, add music and march to the music. March to a destination in the library and back. Give children rhythm instruments and encourage them to shake to the beat of the march.

Lesson Activities

Adding an activity to the lesson helps the children understand the skills being taught.

More Activity Options

Be Kind

Emotion Freeze

  • Prep Time: 10-30 Min
  • Activity Time: 5-10 Min
  • Skills: Communication, Connecting with Others, Perspective Taking
View Activity

Be Kind

Emotions Art Project

  • Prep Time: <10 Min
  • Activity Time: 5-10 Min
  • Skills: Communication, Connecting with Others, Critical Thinking, Fine Motor Skills, Perspective Taking, Vocabulary
View Activity

Lesson Close

Caregivers Return1-2 min

Sing Glad You’re Back.

Closing Activity3-5 min

  • Have children demonstrate to their caregiver what a “good listener” is by using each part of their body and what it means with hands, arms, legs, ears, mouth, and eyes.
  • Ask children to introduce themselves to their caregiver.
  • Goodbye Song
  • Have children demonstrate 3 Hs & a Wave with you before leaving.

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Kindergarten Gear Up is a 10-session customizable curriculum for children and their caregivers. Kindergarten Gear Up gives library staff the tools they need to present this to their communities.

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